How Well Do You Know Your Partner?
Time for a Deep Talk
Honestly? You've got some catching up to do — and that's completely fixable.
Try This: Start with the Deep Talk deck, or take a slower pass at the Courtship Challenge together.
What this looks like day to day
There's more distance here than either of you probably says out loud. That might be recent — a hard few months, a lot of work, physical distance — or it might have built up slowly. Either way the pattern is usually the same: conversation has narrowed to logistics and plans, and the wider stuff hasn't had anywhere to go.
Where it gets difficult
The unhelpful response is to treat this as a scoreboard and feel bad. It's a prompt, not a diagnosis, and a quiz cannot see your relationship. What it can tell you is that the questions haven't been asked lately, which is fixable and often faster than people expect — one honest evening tends to close more ground than a month of trying harder in general. If the distance is about something specific, say the specific thing. If it's just accumulated silence, start anywhere.